The problem with me is sometimes managing my life. As easy as football is… is as hard as life is.”   Former NY Giant and Hall of Fame linebacker, Lawrence Taylor

The Talmud echoes Taylor, whose episodes of sexual and other misconduct are widely reported: It is more difficult to conquer an entire city than it is to conquer a single negative trait.  In truth, LT could take some of his football insights to heart in managing his life.

1) Prep: The season lasts 17 weeks, but the team is busy year round.  ”Make wisdom/clarity your main focus,” says the Talmud, because the success we want requires a commitment to good decision-making beyond the moments of decision.

2) Coaching: Good coaches’ salaries rival players’; “Make for yourself a teacher,” says the Talmud, in order to maximize your life.

3) Fan(aticism): The NFL generates a crazy amount of enthusiasm among its followers, whose shared loyalty and passion unites and lifts a city.  ”Be part of a community,” says the Talmud, where community is defined by people with a shared commitment to inspiring goals.

4) Celebration: Success in the NFL elicits exuberant acknowledgment.  Would I spike a chocolate cake against the ground every time I refrained from excessive, unhealthy food?  Probably not, but the case for over-the-top albeit discreet celebration for small victories is clear.

Wishing you (and LT) much success in life’s Super Bowl.  Shabbat Shalom.

Henry Harris

PS – “The Relationship Workshop,” core wisdom principles to enhance relationships and enjoy the ride, starts THIS WED., 8pm.